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Why Has Getting Married Become So Much Harder?
Wes Myers
September 18, 2025
Getting married is harder because we marry later, date in bigger markets, and expect soulmate-level compatibility instead of 'good enough.'
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How Keeper Works: Our Method for Soulmate Matching
The Keeper Team
August 13, 2025
Keeper works by learning your values and preferences, then using AI and relationship science to find mutual-fit matches, one careful intro at a time.
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You're Not a Perfect Ten
Wes Myers
January 18, 2025
One standout trait like wealth, beauty, or status won't get you your ideal partner. Lasting relationships require balance across multiple dimensions.
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You Already Met Your Soulmate (And Rejected Them)
Wes Myers
January 17, 2025
Yes, you may have already met and rejected your soulmate. This explains why timing, context, and better matchmaking can revive overlooked matches.
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Why You're Rejecting Your Soulmate
Wes Myers
January 3, 2025
You're rejecting potential soulmates because first-date psychology makes tiny flaws feel like dealbreakers. More context helps you judge real compatibility.
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How to Discover and Define Your Ideal Partner Preferences
Wes Myers
December 20, 2024
Define your ideal partner by clarifying, ranking, and separating your true relationship preferences. That helps you filter mismatches and date with intention.
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The Science of Dating Preferences: The Data Behind What People Really Want
Wes Myers
December 6, 2024
People want more in a partner than they can usually name: about 33 distinct preferences on average. Hidden criteria shape attraction and compatibility.
A man gifts a wildflower to a woman.
The Key Difference Between Short- and Long-Term Relationships
Wes Myers
November 21, 2024
Short-term relationships run on infatuation; long-term relationships run on aligned values and intentions. Compatibility upfront prevents heartbreak.
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Why Do People Ghost on Dating Apps?
Wes Myers
August 3, 2024
People ghost on dating apps because disappearing is easy, consequences are low, and interest is often shallow. Learn what ghosting means and how to handle it.
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The Most Dreaded First Date Question
Wes Myers
June 18, 2024
Answer 'What are you looking for in a relationship?' by being honest about your goals, values, and non-negotiables. It filters out bad fits faster.
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Why Do People Settle?
Wes Myers
March 29, 2024
People settle in relationships out of fear, insecurity, habit, or scarcity. This explains the difference between settling and healthy compromise.
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How to Be Ugly, Lonely, and Eventually Divorced
Jake Kozloski
November 4, 2023
Bad relationships start with dishonesty, ignored weaknesses, incompatibility, and hostility. Avoiding these habits gives you a better shot at lasting love.
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What Can Money Buy for Rich Single Men?
Wes Myers
October 10, 2023
Money can raise a man's dating appeal, but it can't erase big gaps in age, personality, fitness, or lifestyle. Wealth helps; it doesn't replace balance.
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Dating Apps Are Designed For You To Fail
Jake Kozloski
September 7, 2023
Dating apps keep many users single because their incentives reward swiping and subscriptions, not lasting love. Matchmaking works when incentives align.
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Relationships and the Big 5
Wes Myers
July 7, 2023
Big Five personality traits can help predict relationship dynamics, but they don't determine success alone. Similarity and fit matter more than any one score.
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Married People Are Happier. You Should Get Married.
Wes Myers
June 22, 2023
Marriage tends to improve life satisfaction, especially when you marry a highly compatible partner. The gains are bigger than a brief honeymoon bump.
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What's Your Attachment Style?
Wes Myers
May 17, 2023
Your attachment style shapes how you bond, communicate, and handle conflict in relationships. Understanding it can help you build healthier, more secure love.
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How To Take Good Dating App Photos (As A Man)
Wes Myers
April 12, 2023
Good dating app photos for men show more than looks; they signal confidence, personality, and lifestyle. Use images that suggest a future with you.
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How To Take Good Dating App Photos (As A Woman)
Wes Myers
April 12, 2023
Good dating app photos for women show personality, lifestyle, and authenticity, not just looks. Use clear, natural images that create a strong first impression.
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The Importance of Marriage, for You and Society
The Keeper Team
March 29, 2023
Marriage matters because it supports personal fulfillment, family stability, and social health. Its decline carries real personal and societal costs.
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Online Dating Clearly Isn't Working
The Keeper Team
March 8, 2023
Online dating isn't working because endless matches create burnout, low-quality dates, and little real compatibility. Keeper argues for quality over quantity.
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What Is a Matchmaker, and What Does One Do?
The Keeper Team
February 17, 2023
A matchmaker helps people find long-term partners by understanding their needs, selecting matches, and guiding the process, more than just arranging dates.
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Do Matchmaking Services Work?
The Keeper Team
February 3, 2023
Yes, matchmaking services can work because they personalize matches, cut noise, and add expert guidance. They're built for lasting love, not endless swiping.
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Why Women Are Struggling to Find Love on Dating Apps
Jake Kozloski
January 29, 2023
Women struggle on dating apps because profiles hide the traits that matter most and men often swipe for short-term and long-term goals at once.
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Get Out of the Boyfriend-Zone
Wes Myers
January 27, 2023
Men get stuck in the boyfriend-zone when they date women they'd keep as girlfriends but not marry. Escaping it means using marriage-level standards earlier.
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The Keeper Master Plan
Jake Kozloski
January 5, 2023
Keeper's master plan is to start with premium AI matchmaking, then make it cheaper and more scalable until ideal matches are accessible worldwide.
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